Linkbuilding and marketing for dating site.

Hello. I own one new dating website with good name,and I have plan to earn some money with it. That site is part of affiliate program by http://www.worlddatingpartners.com. So,I need help to attrack more as possible paid sign-up's.(but I will also accept free sign up's). In other words,I need some expert to promote site,to do SEO,Marketing,everything needs to get me some people. *ONLY quality sign-ups *ONLY unique and confirmed E-mail Addresses and Zip Codes *ONLY unique and confirmed IP addresses *ONLY 100% EUROPIAN UNION,USA,CANADA,AUSTRALIA,NEW ZEALAND Traffic *ONLY 100% Real People Please be honest, help me to put this site on legs, and If I make some money-it will be also good for you. Trust me. Everything MUST be legal, and with their T&C. *NO You can't hire other people to fill them for you. *NO Don't get your friends to sign up. *NO Rotating IP addresses. *NO Fake Emails. *NO Fake Zip Codes. *NO Duplicates sign ups. *NO Fraudulent sign ups. *NO Automated Methods. *NO Cookie Cleaners. *NO Black Hat. *NO Use of proxy servers. *NO Craig list. *NO Auto Bots or Software. You will be paid VIA freelancer immediately after i see the money from my affiliate network. The reason being is because i do not want to pay upfront and receive void leads. My budget is low because I am on beggining of that kinf of job. Thanks on understanding. P.S. ONE MORE TIME: I need help to attrack more as possible paid sign-up's.